Yesterday I turned 47. (Thud. I know. I’m as shocked by this number as you are.)
And this was the first time ever that I only received one birthday card. Just the one. (Thanks Mum & Dad.)
I also received:
- 2 phone calls
- 1 FaceTime call
- 1 WhatsApp message
- 4 text messages
- 1 Facebook Messenger message
- 2 Instagram messages
- and more 100 birthday-wishing posts and comments on my Facebook timeline.
(I also got lots of hugs from the hubs and the kids, but I’m focusing on the digital/mobile/social stuff here, as you can tell.)
By some strange and wonderful coincidence, the Huffington Post yesterday published a snarky piece about Facebook birthday notifications and receiving “happy birthday” posts from people you barely know.
Yeah I get it. Facebook makes it really easy to notice someone’s birthday and send them good wishes in three seconds or less. I mean it’s so much easier than buying and mailing a card or making a phone call. Then you’re all “job done” and you can move on to your next status update, text, Instagram, bagel, tweet, shopping, pedicure, Words with Friends play or whatever.
But when you are on the receiving end of more than 100 birthday wishes via Facebook from family and friends – whether these are people you chat with regularly or haven’t heard from in a decade – it’s really wonderful. Heartwarming. Each of these people took roughly three seconds out of their busy days to acknowledge something worth celebrating. (Me!)
So I don’t care if some people say that using Facebook to say happy birthday is a cop out. I appreciated each and every one.
Side note: Facebook has 1.317 billion monthly active users currently.Imagine if each of them took three seconds out of each day to send birthday wishes to someone else via the social network. In fact, I read that, on average, every day there are 1.9 million people celebrating their birthday. So that’s 1.317 billion Facebook users x 1.9 million birthdays x 3 secs x 30 days in a month = I HAVEN’T A CLUE ….. but it’s got to be a humungous number of good vibes.
Which, in my humble opinion, cannot be a bad thing.